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Why Do You Care What Your Kids Think?

By nature, parents want their children to know they’re good parents. We want our children to trust us. We want our children to believe we know what’s good for them. We want our children to know we care about their feelings. We want them to believe we only want what's best for them and that nothing we ever do is to hurt them. We want them to feel secure in our love for them. 

We don't give them room to wonder when they'll be fed or where they'll sleep; we take care of them in such a way they instinctively know. We like to watch them have fun; playing and laughing. We are so happy to give them a gift we know will touch their hearts that we stand back in awe; taking videos when they open their tailor made birthday presents we so carefully planned out. We interact with them; holding them, showing them affection, talking with them, listening to them, participating in their favorite activities, and teaching them in the ways we know they learn as individuals. 

We exhaust every effort to show them we do what we say we're going to. We do everything in our power to keep them from getting sick and if they do come down with something; we rush to get it fixed as quickly as possible. We tell them about the awesome future that's in store for them and our desire to play a part in it. We go through great lengths; dedicating our time and resources over many years, to make sure our children know that we love them and accept them.

Wouldn't it hurt you to know your child doesn't think you love them? Wouldn't it hurt to think your child believes you don't care about them? Would it not grieve your heart to hear your child say all you care about is yourself and you're not really a good parent?

Why then, is it so far-fetched to think God is any different? Since we are made in His image; why do so many of His children believe the very things about Him that they know would hurt if their own children believed it about them...

(Matthew 9:7-11)

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